I've been to Huntington Beach (on vacation) and I live in Monmouth County. Eventhough life at the Jersey Shore is relaxing, it's not as laid back as Huntington Beach. We do get good waves for surfing and I would say that Manasquan is probably the closest to HB when it comes to attitude, demographics, and lifestyle.
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