When and why were you denied from the program? Is it a recent denial or old denial? If it was a old denial I would call them again to see what can be done. But a lot might be tied to your divorce.
First Weber Group
Certifed Distressed Property Expert
I hope things are going better for you now than they were in December. I just saw your question and wondered if you discussed this with your divorce attorney and if they were able to include something in the divorce decree stating your soon to be ex, has to cooperate in the modification.
I know someone else that is financed with BofA and she's "officially" divorced. Her husband is staying in the house (they are both on the loan and title still) and BofA did a modification for them. He lost his job so they qualified with the job loss hardship and the divorce hardship. Feel free to call if I can be of any assistance.
Best of luck,
Mortgage and Real Estate Broker