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That is a complex situation. I can recommend several good, local lenders to assist you with this question. Your credit is impeccable and if you have a sufficient downpayment you should be able to move forward.
This would never go through the Fannie Mae or Freddie Mac computer approval. Manual overrides are non-existant.
You can hopefully get more income for your rentals and show a bigger cash flow or sell and get under 45% and try again.