it sounds like you are headed in the right direction. There are programs out there that will help you get into the condo based on your credit score and information you provided.
As mentioned below wells fargo offers a program and so does PHH mortgage.
I use PHH mortgage becuase they have never let me down with an approval yet. my contact their is Chris Ayer. his number is 704-771-3954.
Give him a call and you should be able to purchase this condo.
I understand your frustration. I may be able to help by pointing you in the direction of one of my greatest lending resources.
Jim Garrison, with Primary Residential Mortgage, has some great programs to help folks in your position. His info is:
Primary Residential Mortgage, Inc.
255-C Post Office Drive
Indian Trail, NC 28079
It's easy to apply online at his website, http://www.jimgarrison.com/applynow.
I have used him for many years and his wisdom and knowledge have been invaluable in helping my clients with challenges reach their home buying goals. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to assist you with your home purchasing needs.
Blessings upon you...
It is unlikely that you will be able to get traditional financing. However, there are other options. The seller maybe able to finance you depending if they own the property or have financing on it or there are investors that may consider short term financing options.
Feel free to contact me at 704-576-1671 and I will see if I can help.
Keller Williams Realty