I hope you have consulted your divorce attorney about this transaction. There are several documents that will need to be signed by your husband essentially giving up his rights to your property. Don't try to cut corners here with the legal assistance. I have seen some real messes regarding marital property matters that were handled badly.
As for the closing, I have had many closings at the NJ shore ( and PA ) where neither party was at the settlement. All the necessary paperwork had been signed by both parties in advance. Good luck. - Fri Jul 17 2009, 10:01