Oh Baby
I need everyone to suspend their notions of what a real estate blog should be for a moment and just sit back. I am going to speak today about circumstance. This is not a direct commentary on homes or the sales process. This is a blog about forward thought. When my wife and I had our first child last year, it was the most amazing experience of my (our) life. Aside from the flood of emotion, it brought to light the tremendous necessity of frugality, efficiency and resourcefulness. We live in a small 2-bedroom house in the Germantown neighborhood of Nashville. Small old homes pay homage to a bygone era in Nashville, and we are proud to make it our home. When we bought our house, we did so knowing that someday we would be starting a family in there. We didn’t think, nor had the capacity to think, about the consequence of our purchase decision or what impact it might have on our family. A full year later, we realize now the effects of our purchase. They are almost entirely good. I won’t go so far as to say that we live an austere life, but both of us are from large cities where space comes at a premium and thusly we are accustomed to a concentrated use of space and resources. Space though sticks in my mind. It has become clearer for me to understand why so many people enjoy sub-urban living. Large yards, ample bonus rooms and large garages make life not necessarily easier, but perhaps slightly more simple. I am a huge advocate for urban living. I tend to think in terms of “why not?” live in the city rather than “why?”. Now with a child that idea is turned on its head…or is it? Can being a parent and living in small, efficient spaces co-exist? I think so. I think budgeting your resources is a great exercise in both living and parenting. I don’t want anyone to think I am directing their parenting decisions, I certainly am not. To each their own applies in this realm perhaps more than any other. However, as a real estate professional, I think part of my job is to help focus a very challenging decision process. So many city dwellers wish that their lives didn’t have to change simply because of an expanding family, and I hope that this personal perspective gives them hope. I think a lot about legacy, my own and others. I don’t know if that is a healthy pursuit or not, but it does help me to think about consequence and action. Clearly my legacy is now my child, so choosing the environment in which they grow up is more important to me than ever. It’s a wrench in the gears, but it’s an important one.
Step right up and pick your realtor!
Everyone (myself included) has opined the importance of selecting that perfect realtor. That magical person that makes us feel warm and fuzzy inside when we make a huge purchase or sale decision. Yet, miraculously, none of us has even scratched the surface really on how to make that important decision. How to decide who we are going let represent us in what may be the most important financial decision we will ever make. So, it is with great fanfare, tardiness and pleasure that I give to you my rules for picking that perfect Realtor.
1) Lets start with the name. Realtor. Not everyone is one. Only real estate agents who have passed all their licensing exams and agree to be ethically and legally regulated by a body of their peers can claim to be a Realtor. Realtors all have one great thing in common: they are required to maintain a level of knowledge and expertise in their field through mandated yearly and bi-yearly continuing education. Agents who do not adhere to this strict code may not bear the name Realtor.
2) Picking a real estate agent is a lot like dating. Making sure that special someone has something in common with you is important. Imagine going on a date with someone that you had nothing in common with. You sit through an awkwardly silent dinner, kiss them goodnight and think to yourself…”self, I am going to see that person again, and again, and again. In fact, that person was so boring, I think I am going to give them my power of attorney.“ You wouldn’t do that right? If you answer yes, then there is no need to read any further. Your Realtor should be someone that you click with. Someone that were you not involved in a business transaction you would consider hanging out with. It should be someone that you feel comfortable calling at odd hours.
3) Knowledge is power. Your Realtor should be knowledgeable of the things that are important to you. Areas of town, schools, restaurants, entertainment. It’s perfectly ok to quiz an agent a bit to make sure they understand the place you like or have. After all, who is going to be showing who around right?
4) Looks don’t matter, or do they? Your realtor should be a professional. Don’t get me wrong here, I am not saying that Realtors should be in a suit and tie at all times, but they should be well kept. Your Realtor should make you feel like they are on top of things from the moment you set eyes on them. Confidence is huge in this business, and the Realtor who lacks it will not serve you well during a tough negotiation. The way your Realtor dresses or presents themself can have a direct impact on the deal you ultimately secure in buying or selling your home.
5) Timing is everything. This category has a few components, but they all share one common theme: time.
a) Your realtor should be punctual. This business uses a term that requires punctuality and that term is “time is of the essence.” If your realtor can’t be bothered to be on time then you should be concerned about their ability to live by that contractually mandated term.
b) Phone calls, text messages and emails can wait. Lets go back to that idea of dating again. If your new date spent the entirety of your dinner on the phone, texting or emailing you probably wouldn’t choose to go on a second date right? Same thing here. You should be the most important person to your Realtor any time they are in front of you. It’s ok for them to excuse themselves to answer a call, as long as the purpose of answering is to call that person back at a future time. You should command your Realtors basically undivided attention.
c) Your time is valuable. Your Realtor should always remember that your time is valuable. They should give you a good idea of how much of your time they need and they should stick to that. If they need more time from you, it should come in the form of a request. I am not saying that you need to have the formalized relationship of a work place but it should be close.
6) Lastly, don’t forget what this relationship means for you. The place where you lay your head likely rests on this decision. If it isn’t working out, don’t hesitate to make a change. Just like dating, you can break up with your Realtor anytime you like. You should have a good reason to do so, but you are well within your rights. Things don’t always work out, offers are not always going to be accepted and that is not the fault of your Realtor. But if they don’t have an alternative, if they don’t remain positive and move forward, then they don’t have your best interest in mind.
Picking that special someone is not easy. Use the advise of your friends, neighbors, colleagues and family. There are hundreds and thousands of Realtors out there, and many are very well qualified, but only one is right for you.
Green Valleys, Green Mountains…why not Green Hills?
With the search for that perfect home growing ever more cumbersome and the inventory getting slimmer and slimmer, wouldn’t it be nice to find a neighborhood that still had something cool to offer? Houses and Condos are flying off the market all over the city, but not in one place: Green Hills. No, it doesn’t have cooties. It doesn’t smell bad, and no, it didn’t call you a name. It’s just a spectacularly forgotten neighborhood, ready for your attention. Okay, that might be an overstatement. Green Hills is actually pretty vibrant, and as far as housing is concerned, it has maintained a steady level of supply for the past several years. That being said, length of time on the market continues to be a big challenge in Green Hills.
So why would a place that can use the word “consistency” consistently (you liked that one didn’t you?) be a place that is ripe for growth and a good deal? I will tell you why. Green Hills, once the slightly smaller, ever so slightly less expensive cousin of Belle Meade made its name on being the neighborhood that almost was {Belle Meade}. It made itself out to be an expensive, lofty place that catered to a very specific crowd. That was a great strategy five years ago, heck it was a great strategy three years ago, but it’s not such a great strategy anymore. People that bought into that hype, who craved that lifestyle, over spent and lost. Here is the glimmer. (Whisper this one) Now YOU can take advantage of that lost dream. With the hype comes some distinct and tangible advantages. Green Hills is actually exactly what the modern home-buyer needs. It is a self contained, well-organized town. You have more than adequate shopping (The Mall at Green Hills is right in the middle of it), more than adequate grocery choices (Whole Foods, Harris Teeter and some smaller choices are also in the middle), more than adequate entertainment (The Bluebird Café, a Nashville institution, and F. Scotts) and more than adequate services (Hotels, Auto Repair, Convenience and Specialty stores). If you were going to put the perfect community on paper, it would likely resemble what Green Hills has become. Here is the best part though: With all that bleakness (see above) came a shining beacon for modern Urban or slightly suburban living - (whisper this one also, we don’t want everyone to know) lower prices. Yes, I said it. Where as once you couldn’t touch Green Hills for less than $350,000 now you can do it for less…much less in fact. You can find fixer uppers for $200k or less, nice ranchers for $250k or less and even some big family homes for under $400k. That was unheard of 3-4 years ago.
In times of economic stress, there is a distinct opportunity for the middle class to make a move. For young families, professionals and empty nesters to make that next step up the property ladder. Will it be you? Green Hills might just be the perfect place to call home, but don’t take my word for it, come check it out for yourself.