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Top 15 Things A Listing Agent Won’t Tell Sellers … (But REALLY Should …)

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We’ve all been there: something happens and you feel like you just HAVE to say something. However, common sense and the manners your mother pounded into you during your childhood keep your lips planted together and those thoughts remain inside your head.

 

As I talk to a lot of REALTORS, they share with me things they’ve often wanted to say to sellers but never had the guts to do so. But deep inside they felt they really SHOULD have said something. And so … since they won’t say those things out loud, I will!

 

Here are the top 15 things listing agents want to say to sellers, but won’t …

And I didn’t make ANY of this up. I also know that one or two of these things may offend someone, so please accept my apologies right up front!

 

1.    “I know it’s hard to believe, but as professional Realtors, we actually do know more about selling your house than you do.”

 

You might be an engineer, doctor, lawyer or tribal chieftain … but as a licensed, highly trained full-time REALTOR, we do this all day long every day. And just like we’d never presume to tell you how to do your job, we REALLY don’t like it when you presume to know more about selling houses than we do.

 

2.    “You have a nice house, but it’s not anything really special.”

 

We know you live there and have your emotions tied to your home, but as Realtors, we see hundreds and hundreds of homes every year and trust me, yours is … ok. There is absolutely no reason it should be priced higher than other comparable homes in the area. None. Zip. Nadda. In fact, if you want it to sell in the current market, it should actually be priced a bit LESS …

 

3.    “Your upgrades don’t deserve the extra amount you want added to the price.”

 

We’re glad you’ve added crown molding everywhere. And paid for Ralph Lauren suede paint. And new carpet. Your new toilet seats are great. And we’re really glad you sanded out the dog pee stains in the hardwood floors and refinished them. However, none of your upgrades add a single penny’s value to your home. In the new economy, new windows, nice flooring and a newish roof should be considered standard. Buyers today demand a whole lot more before they are willing to start paying premium prices. They expect designer kitchens with custom cherry cabinets, recessed halogen lighting, new upscale appliances, solid granite counters and more. They want totally upgraded baths with Jacuzzi tubs, tumbled marble, frameless glass doors. And so on …

 

4.    “I know what you think your house is worth.”

 

Now get real! The seller doesn’t set the price, the market does. And the simple truth is that lower priced homes sell while higher prices homes sit and sit and sit. Sorry. And I truly AM empathetic that you bought your home in 2005 or 2006. At the top of the market. Please remember that I own a house too and my property value has also gone into the toilet …

 

5.    “I’m glad you collect things. We’re selling your house, not your stuff.”

 

You’re moving anyway, pack all your collections away. Now. And the talking fish needs to be the first thing off the wall and in a box …

 

6.    “Agents are willing to do open houses because they get prospective buyers – who want to buy somebody else’s house, not yours.”

 

Open houses REALLY are not an effective way to sell your home.  Even though they sometimes work, they are the least effective way of getting the job done. Trust us. See point #1 above.

 

7.    “We have some issues with your decorating …”

 

The CalTrans orange room has to be repainted. And the lime green one. While you are at it, get the midnight blue room as well. Whatever were you thinking? Did you scrounge through the “ooops” bin at Home Depot? It’s nice that you have wallpaper from 1978. Please remove it and repaint the wall. And whatever you do, DON’T paint over it …

 

8.    “I really don’t want to get intimate with your dog.”

 

I especially don’t like what he’s doing to my leg. And the smell in here is really bad. Please keep Fido in the garage during the time you are selling your home. And the doggy bombs in the back yard gotta go as well.

 

9.    “I will not be responsible for your cat.”

 

If you are concerned it will bolt out the door when prospective buyers arrive, then please keep Fluffy in a Kitty Krate while you are gone.

 

10.   “Don’t put up ANY roadblocks that may keep sellers out.”

 

Don’t even THINK about showing your home by “appointment only.”  Don’t want a lock box? Trust me, your stuff isn’t that valuable. Don’t want buyers after 5:00 p.m. at night? You’re kidding, right? If a buyer can't get in when it works for them, they are gone.

 

11.   “Prospective Buyers DO NOT want you to give them a tour of your home.”

 

They actually want you out of the house … so resist the urge to be a tour guide and go for a walk around the block. They’ll find out on their own that you’ve carefully lined the cupboards with new floral shelf liners and put a new TP holder in the master bath.

 

12.   “STOP SMOKING IN YOUR HOUSE!!”

 

Especially the pot …

 

13.   When a Realtor calls to let you know they’re coming at 11:00 a.m., rings your door bell, knocks VERY loudly, opens your front door and yells, “HELLO, REALTOR,” …

 

Please get out of bed BEFORE we get to your bedroom … and put some clothes on when you do …

 

14.   What is that smell???

 

Whatever it is… it’s gotta go … and please don’t cook with curry until you are in your new home … or fry fish right before people come to see your home …

 

15.   “We’re worth our commission.”

 

Every penny of it. Selling a house is actually hard work. And, for those of us who market extensively, it costs a lot of money that we pay out of pocket up front. You really do get what you pay for. In the same way you’re not going to be able to buy a Honda at a Daewoo or Suzuki dealership, you are not going to get full support, service and top-notch professional representation at bargain basement prices. There’s a very good reason many discount brokerages are going out of business in the current economy. Anyone who is willing to take a cut-rate commission structure is simply not going to be able to make enough off your listing to do the types of advertising necessary to get you top dollar. And since you are competing against REOs and Short Sales, if you go cheap, you will lose every time.

 

Well … there they are – I've probably managed to offend everyone! I know you will have some of your own to add ... please, be my guest!

Comments

By Ailynne PeBenito,  Fri May 22 2009, 16:35
Hahahahha this is very hilarious but definitely TRUE
sellers being emotional attached to the house... they need to get real, once the property is for sale that is already a commodity and it is for the public to see if they wanted to buy it
By John Juarez,  Fri May 22 2009, 17:35
I don't know whether to laugh or cry! All too true! REALTORS...if you have not shared Carl's experiences, you will. Just give it some time. Homeowners...do you see yourself?

What more can you add?

One of my all time favorites is the "Winchester Mystery House addition". You know...as long as we keep building, the ghosts will stay away. No rhyme, no reason, no plan and (obviously) no architect. Just a really ugly addition.
By Murline,  Fri May 22 2009, 23:55
Your cat is out of the bag, or shall I say your frustration is showing?

I was cracking up! I think its the basis comedy routine at Tommy T's.

The above applies perfectly to the two listings you helped me with.
Snoopy would say Arrrr..... to the smell, to the stuff, to the decorations and to the “seller's belief” of their home value or is it self worth?

As realtors we might tread lightly as whatever we really want to say will offend. We might want to preface every listing agreement with:
“In order to sell your home, I will tell you the truth and the ugly realities of the current housing market which will most definitely offend you!”

As I read your blog, I was struck by the concept of "seller's belief." In working with seniors, research has found that cohort share a similar belief system. Those now in their 80's grew up during the depression and though they might now have millions of dollars in their trust funds, they remain frugal. They believe they are broke.

Similarly, I think the generations of people selling their homes these days have a belief and mindset based on the decades of growth and prosperity regardless of the ups and downs, the value has been somewhat stable. Anything that opposes their belief system about their worth and value that developed over many years is outside of their realm of understanding or comprehension.

Our message cannot get much clearer than the statics we present, yet sellers still resist and want to “do it their way.” They still believe that some day that one buyer will crawl out of the woodwork like a knight in shinning armor and buy their house! Just like before! I guess it is our job to try to re-educate sellers that times are really changing, if they wait and resist a realtors expertise which speaks to today’s reality, the buyer will be the bank. The bank is no Knight in Shinning Armor.

The bank also does not care about the cat, the dog, the stuff, smell, seller’s feelings or seller’s perception of value. The bank, however, will kick your ass out and tarnish your credit. This is our new cohort history. Get used to it.
By Ws Homeowner,  Sat May 23 2009, 08:48
I am glad you published that. We sellers, really do grow emotionally attached to our opinions and reality can hurt at times. I cringed often, seeing myself in your descriptions. I think that is why you only had realtors comment!

Before you get too big of a head, please acknowledge that the behavior of some realtors would lead to a similar post from the other side. for example, In the book Freakonomics, it was found that realtors kept their homes for sale longer and generally received a higher price than the homes they sold for others. Conflicts of interest are the realtor's burden to bear, and ours to be ever vigilent.
By Dawn Rivera,  Sat May 23 2009, 18:12
Carl, I like the way you write, very entertaining. I have most assuredidly wanted to say most of those to one seller or another.
By Mary Ellen,  Sat May 23 2009, 20:11
I currently have my house on the market. It is the third time I have been through this process. The first time in 1986 in Bergen County NJ, the second time in 2001 in Rockland County, NY and now in Pa. I have noticed a change in the the attitude of the realtors of late as compared to previous sales experiences. It seems to me that the agents/realtors, whatever they want to be called have completely lost their edge. They all seem to have gotten a bloated image of what they are. They seem to forget that they are supposed to SELL, SELL SELL!!!!!! They expect the buyers and the internet do their job for them. If the market stinks...work harder. It seems to me that there is way too much self importance going on in this profession. Get over yourselves...just read the above comments...you all make me laugh! How hard do you really work for the half million dollar product that is dropped in your lap? These are peoples' lives you are taking so lightly. It's time to look in the mirror and admit that you need to get back to good old fashioned sales techniques!!! You owe it to your clients! Give me a good old fashioned hardworking salesperson any day! I want to hire that "Realtor".

SALESPERSON WANTED! Pay is great!
By Carl Medford,  Sun May 24 2009, 08:47
Mary Ellen:

I totally understand your frustrations. Anyone who has sold a home before will readily see the difference between the way homes are marketed today and in yesteryear. It’s not the Realtors who have changed, it is our society. In fact, many Realtors who’ve not understood and adapted to the new societal changes have been left in the cold – the sales techniques that worked “back in the day” are no longer effective. Realtors who insist on doing “business as usually” typically end up with little or no sales. It’s the sad truth.

Here are a couple of factors you need to consider:

It is a LOT more work to sell a home now that 20 years ago and to do an effective job of marketing is SUBSTANTIALLY more expensive. Used to be that Realtors listed a house, had their local MLS take a single picture of the home for them, put a sign on the front lawn and made up a very simple brochure. They walked the neighborhoods, put ads in the local newspaper, did a few open houses and waited.

Neighborhoods have changed. The days of sandlot baseball are gone. Children no longer play together in the streets. Neighbors no longer talk over their fences, walk their neighborhoods in the evening, sit on the porch and talk to passersby or get together for anything. Social circles are no longer defined geographically. The Internet, along with Facebook and other such sites has drastically changed the way people relate. People come home to their homes, lock their doors and relate from inside their homes through the phone and Internet. If they visit, they meet in places such as Starbucks or social venues. They leave their neighborhoods and drive, sometimes great distances, to go to church, work and meet with friends. People hardly even invite others over for dinner anymore, and the idea of families eating together at dinner has disappeared with the Cleavers leaving primetime. As another example, they are now entertained INSIDE their homes instead of needing to go to local theaters.

People no longer welcome a Realtor at the front door. In fact, with the advent of so many gated communities, people come home, drive through their gates, pull into their homes and figuratively “pull up the drawbridge.” They DON’T want people from the outside to access them.

Seller’s expectations have changed along with the evolution of the Internet. They want to sell their homes without open houses, with no lockbox, by appointment only to those who can demonstrate ahead of time that they are prequalified. They realize that a Realtor might get 10 people through their home on a weekend with an Open House (and they are inconvenienced by being out of their home during the event), however, they know that the Virtual Open House their Realtor has constructed on the Internet will get thousands of visits per week. And that those who visit AFTER they’ve seen the home on the Internet will be the ones who are truly interested in the home.

An example would be http://www.35937Blair.com.

I know many Realtors who are working harder than ever before at their craft. 70 hour work weeks are common for scores of, and many don’t even own a set of golf clubs. They drive Hondas and Toyotas, and, even though they do a large number of transactions, are still having difficulties making ends meet because of the new economic factors. Truth is, most people don’t understand what Realtors really do. And they further do not understand the costs involved with effectively marketing homes. They look at the commission structures and assume Realtors are getting rich off of their sale. Nothing could be further from the truth. It’s no surprise that so many cut-rate commission companies are going out of business – they simply cannot survive.

Mary Ellen, you state, “SALESPERSON WANTED! Pay is great!”

Pay is great? Really? Not so much anymore. As for taking people’s lives’ lightly, I beg to differ. This is a sacred trust and I personally regard it as such. And the dozens and dozens of testimonials we have would certainly attest to that fact.

You are most certainly correct in one thing – we owe the best to our clients. And that is exactly what OUR clients get.
By Norma Leppert,  Sun May 24 2009, 16:39
How true it is! If only we could get the owner banks to clean up and get rid of junk on all their bank owned
foreclosed properties. Most sellers don't want to pay attention to Realtos suggestions and advice. It is
a hard pill to swallow as WS Homeowner states. A home that smells good, has no clutter etc, etc, sells
a lot quicker than some that are in need of work. They also sell faster.
By John Smith,  Tue Jun 23 2009, 18:38
Bless you! I have swallowed all of these suggestions at one time or another. And, like you, I work hard. 60 hour weeks? Hah! I wish I had a work week that short! I used to be a restaurant manager at a hotel, in charge of Room Service (starting at 4:30 am) and two bars (closing at 2 am) and worked a 6 day week. This is harder, longer, and more intense.

I do sympathize with the home owner above, and, I know what she feels is true, but, if she doesn't think that Realtors are working hard these days, then, she's got the wrong Realtor.

But, I do disagree with one thing you said, and, with most Realtors. I disagree about open houses. Not the premise that they don't sell that house, for the most part, I would say that less than 20% of sales come from people who heard of a home first at the open house. BUT, I do believe that, particularly in 'walking', densely occupied urban neighborhoods, open houses do assist. Particularly on those 'by appointment only' homes.
But not just public opens, I think that 'broker' opens and 'neighbor' opens can build up a network of people aware of the home, who will, peripherally, promote the property.

And, of course, you DO get all those buyers. ;)

Cheers,
Aaron Smith, REALTOR
The Smith Team
By Margaret Oscilia,  Tue Jun 23 2009, 20:22
Well, as a home stager, I say many of these things every day to home sellers -- and the agents I work for love me for doing it! I am sensitive and direct, and discuss very matter of factly pet smells and worse in a non threatening way. What sellers love is that a home stager provides solutions to the pee smell, can give them the correct paint colors to paint, how to quickly declutter, and show them dozens of examples of what sells quickly and what doesn't.
Actually, I've found that sellers are usually eager to learn how to improve their odds of selling and do the majority of what we advise. It takes a lot of time and effort to delicately handle some of these issues, but the statistics are phenomenal when a house is well prepared - even in this market!
By Sharon Tudor Isler,  Tue Jun 23 2009, 20:57
I just sold a house, listed at $549,000 for $529,000. It was one of only two that sold in that price range in our area in May. There is so much competition in the area that it was amazing how fast it sold. And why??? Well, the sellers had the house in "perfect" condition and made it easy to show. They had de-cluttered and packed their "stuff" - ready to move on. Then, when we received an offer, they negotiated in good faith. And when the inspection had a few minor concerns, they had them repaired immediately. We even had a problem with the community water system for which they made calls, wrote letters and "made it happen" to the buyers' satisfaction. My marketing helped get the buyer interested, of course. But the sellers made the difference in impressing the buyer on the first visit (you don't get a second chance) and throughout closing escrow. Oh, would that this was the norm in real estate!
By Jill Segrove,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 04:29
Carl, I'm not real big on posting comments after reading someone's blog, in fact this is my first comment ever, but you deserved my time in making a comment of "AWESOME ARTICLE".
By Phil Crank Jr,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 05:35
Carl, my gency only has 10 of these items on the handout we give to listings. Thanks to you we will add 5 more. What a great article
By Lynne A. Davis,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 06:41
Hey Carl, All is true! Wonderful article. I remember the first home I ever showed and they had boiled eggs right before I got there. I thought someone had a very big problem and was embarrassed for my client. The smell was unbelievable! and I made the appointment to show this home 24 hours in advance. What were they thinking, and why didn't their agent remind them about smells?
By Vicki Trembly,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 06:52
$5 says Mary Ellen is guilty of at least 3 of your points.
By Marcus Burke,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 10:09
How about:
"No I just told you... you can't get a loan on a condo conversion in Florida right now. No one cares what a fab credit score you think you have, or how much money you make, or how much you can put down. It's not about you, it's about the credibility of the community. So stop arguing with me. I know what I'm doing. Right now, it's cash, FHA or nothing. (See also #1)
By Carolyn Durkin,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 10:12
Thanks, Carl, for the entertainment! Yes, indeed. Been there....have NOT said that ;) I do disagree with one of your points regarding marketing, though. There are still many parts of the country that are not internet saavy. I still get most of my business and referrals from interacting with the community. Word of mouth is still alive and well....
By Belinda Arroyo,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 10:52
Would you send this out by eblast to all prospective home sellers?
By Kris Simpson,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 11:15
Carl,
Thanks for saying all these things. It is great therapy to know others have these experiences. Not that I doubted it. But you do not alway get the chance to talk openly when meeting other brokers and because of all the rules and regulations, ethics, etc. that we must abide by, don't always feel comfortable in revealing these frustrations.
I can even add a couple that might add to the "what?" factor.

How about pet snakes ? In a room painted midnight blue with little night lights only. AHHHHHH !
Or a life size "dummy" that is used for karate training but is left "lurking" in the corner of the living room. I thought it was a burglar ! In both instances my heart skipped a couple of beats. Fortunately the seller removed them all.

I wish I had all the money I have spent on room air fresheners, Fabreze, candles, etc. when holding Open Houses in "smelly" properties. Opening in the windows in 40 degree weather is not always desirable.

Thanks again. I feel better !
By @cherylleescott,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 12:49
The only one that I have issue with is #10, "roadblocks" to keep sellers out. Showing "by appointment" instills a deeper commitment in the prospective buyer and also protects sellers from having random people they don't know trapse through their home at any an all hours of the day and night. If the house is completely vacant, that's a different story, but I truly feel buyers take the appointment more seriously when they know another agent has to meet them there to unlock the door and the timing had to be arranged with the seller. It's the beginning of a courtesy, rather than shakey-flakey, relationship.
By Cindy Kidd,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 14:14
This is a great article. My biggest pet peeve is the cat bolting out the door. I have allergies to cats and I absolutely hate to have to go on a kitty hunt. Wonderful comedy for those of us that deal with these issues on a regular basis.
By Alice L. Feldman,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 15:17
What a great blog!! All issues discussed have been encountered by me at one time or another in my 29 years of selling homes in Westchester County, New York.
Whatever price homes are selling for in your area, it is the buyer or market that sets the price, not the seller. This point is extremely difficult to get across and has been throughout the years.
If only all sellers would listen to their professionals that they hire to market their property!
Alice L. Feldman
By Gil Daigle,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 15:37
Right on Carl!! Every point is on target. I especially like the one about the seller's house not being special. Yes some are but most are just ordinary and need to be marketed as such. This article should be manditory reading for all sellers.
By Jarrett Wing,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 15:41
You did an awesome job on this article.
By Valerie McNeal, CDPE, CRS, GRI,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 16:05
Very timely article and yes I have had my laugh for the day. Its also very interesting to read Maryellen's response. These are the sellers we are dealing with out here folks. It pays to educate on the new way to market homes to sell and that social media is the way to go. I especially like the fact that we can market homes for a lot less than actually placing ads in the local newspaper, that is such a waste of money.

I do have to comment that I sold my house from to a visitor from one of my Open Houses. Go figure-
By Carl Medford,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 16:21
Great comments all!! Thanks for chiming in.

I’m afraid I have to disagree with the comment from cherylleescott. Unfortunately, the inability to get into a home doesn’t install courtesy - it breeds annoyance.

In my experience, the majority of sellers who show by “appointment only” are doing so out of fear and a lack of trust for the Realtors showing the homes. They are typically afraid that their belongings might be broken or stolen or their space might be violated in some way. They want to be there to “watch” the showing to make sure nothing goes wrong. As an example, they want to ensure that we take our shoes off.

Bottom line: they want to be in control of the process. Unfortunately, their insistence on control can make the process VERY aggravating for all parties concerned. I understand if there is a genuine medical issue or something similar. Unfortunately, this is seldom the case.

Because of the hectic pace of life here in the Bay Area, most couples looking for homes have precious little to spend on their searches. They need to be able to get into homes on THEIR schedule, not the schedule of a particular homeowner.

We’ve seen a direct relationship between accessibility to a home, the time it takes to sell and the price obtained in the end. Most of my buyers, informed that they cannot access a house when THEY are able to do so, simply cross the property off their list and move on. They are not going to take time out of their schedules to stop what they are doing drive across town and meet a Realtor simply to see one home they could see when it was convenient for them.

It’s not my job to educate buyers in the finer points of commitment, courtesy or manners – it’s my job to facilitate the purchase of a home. In the performance of that job, I try to remove as many obstacles as possible to keep everything moving along smoothly. Homes that are shown by “appointment only” are huge speed bumps in the process and are distained by buyers and Realtors alike.
By Rebecca,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 16:23
I think it is a funny article. To be honest, I sometimes do think that the agent/broker makes good money, but maybe you're right that most people don't know what realtors/agents do. I don't think I know. For example, I am in the process of buying a home. Besides sending some property listing that match our creteria and show us the property that we are interested after we review the information, there isn't much more involved now. I think this will be no more than 6 or 8 hours of labor per month since we don't look at property every week. I think it will be more work later during transaction, but for the amount of hours spent, it does seem pay is good. I even consider this as my career in the future when I want to change job...so I'd like to know what else a realtor is involved.
By The Ko Denhamer Team,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 16:31
REALLY GREAT TRUTHS...apart from one: OPEN HOUSES DO WORK & DO SELL HOMES......we still sell through open houses, just sold 1 home last week to the 1st buyer......identical situation in the same neighborhood or our last listing.....essentially I think we sell 1 home/month directly through the open house....key is that your whole marketing plan should be aimed at creating a sense of urgency and "drive" buyers to visit open houses....once we figured out how to create real synergy between our marketing tools & how to really "work" the open house our share of homes sold that way just soared (and yes, we also did get more listings from our hard work and also more buyers......)....YES we do have the credentials to back this up!!
Maybe we can help Mary Ellen too?
By Carl Medford,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 16:37
Open Houses work – statistically – 1% of the time. That’s not my statistic, that’s from NAR. We’ve ALL sold a house through an open house – BUT … it’s nowhere near the most significant place our sales come from. We still do them, but we do everything else way more. We put our efforts into things that truly DO deliver – 95% of the time!
By Stephanie Crawford,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 17:09
This made me smile (a few times!) ... I just hope you don't have to explain youself when a prospective client pulls it out one day.
By Carl Medford,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 17:14
I'll GLADLY explain it!! (Actually, that's the whole point!)
By Dk,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 17:24
I understand the idea of not wanting to set up so called "roadblocks" to potential buyers. However, the idea of the house being available for viewing at the drop of a hat, with no warning, is simply not feasible in many cases, because unless the house is vacant and you've already moved out, you are still living there, and may have to be for a while. For instance, having two large dogs in the house, during the week while at work, makes it impossible to just allow the Realtor to pop in any time without an appointment. The option of just sticking the dogs in the garage all day, especially in 90+ degree Florida summer weather simply isn't realistic or right. Plus, the buyer would want to see the garage as well anyway. Alternately, boarding the dogs every day for what could be months just in case a buyer may come by could cost thousands of dollars by the time the home is sold.

I do agree that the seller needs to be flexible, and let the Realtor do his/her job. Either set an appointment with plenty of notice so the seller can plan ahead, or call at least a half hour before you need to see the house (at a time when someone can actually be at home such as an evening or weekend) so that the seller can quickly straighten up and wipe down (after all, the seller is still living there, with dogs and kid...both of which are inherently messy!) before loading the whole family into the car and heading out for an hour or so to leave the house free for your showing.
By Darren McShane, ABR, SHS,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 17:25
Hey Carl, Still need to move that house in Baltimore?
Darren McShane
By Christine Howlett,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 17:46
Carl, this article is superlative! I'm planning to include it with my listing materials. A potential seller's reaction to this will be a good indicator for how cooperative they will be throughout the process. This article may help weed out some listings I'd be better off not taking.
By Terri Vellios,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 18:26
Carl, I loved it! Dare we share with our sellers?

Rebecca, most who has not sold or worked for an agent have the mind set agents are all over paid for what they do. This is because there is a lot of work done behind the scenes that you do not see. If we've done a great job we make it look effortless.

* Education (think attorney and marketing). We must be up to the minute on everything and it changes.
* Disclosures, here in the Bay area that is 1-6 inches of paper compliance. We read this stuff and explain it.
* Nework meetings
* The pro bono work, all those buyers and sellers who use our time and services and end up not buying or selling. What other profession do you know where you work for free, pay for everything out of your own pocket and only get reinbursed after splitting the commission with the Broker and other Agent (they don't share in the expenses). Expenses are not reinbursed by the seller or buyer. Taxes - Uncle Sam get's a chunk of it, we do not have paid health insurance, do not have a car allowance, gas and auto insurance we pay that too, cell phone bills, license fees, dues, MLS membership, lock box membership, internet fees, desk and printing fees, etc. Figure that what ever commission you negotiate you keep 1/3 - the rest goes to, the broker, taxes and expenses.

* You are one client and we are one realtor - if you were to spend a week in the shoes/car of an agent you may change your mind. My typical day starts at 6:00 a.m and ends around 10:00 p.m., between adding flyers to listing boxes, creating the marketing material, follow up with showings, buyer meetings, buyer tour preparation, screening homes, comparative market studies for listing appts., touring properties, continued education, coordinating inspections, title/escrow, reviewing documents and transmitting those documents, open houses, fielding calls and talking with vendors, clients, and sales people, time sitting during inspections, whew, I'm tired and this list goes on.

What people need to know is that we do this FULL time, which is greater than 40 hours per week, and most weekends. It is our knowledge which earns us the income, not opening a door or being a house tour guide.

And... I love it!
By Bonnie K. Brennan,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 20:01
By Arlene (agent) Bravo Carl
Now I know why I prefer buyers over sellers. Please realize there is not a dollar value on every memory or event ever celebrated in this home, now its just a house and your memories are moot points to the buyer. One would think you'd not show during dinner, or while theres a good TV program on with the family gathered. The fewer people, or none, present the better. I have told sellers some of your suggestions, as I am outspoken, and if they show little or no concern, I suggest they find another agent. We work too hard at this to be sabotaged by an unco-operative seller. I am going to print this list for future reference Thank you so much for saying it so succinctly. In todays market, if you really want to sell your home, you need to bend over backward to make it happen. If it sits too long, don't blame us.
By Jonathan Hyatt,  Wed Jun 24 2009, 20:50
I would hope that more Realtors really do say these things - I do ! People appreciate honesty more than you think - and if they don't - they will when you are the second agent that gets the listing with the price recduction and the condition you told them it should be in the first time around.
By John Palmisano,  Thu Jun 25 2009, 06:35
Hi Carl, you forgot The Potential. The potential in the neighborhhod, the potential in the house, when the new buyers gut it. This one I have been getting lately. I tell them explain the potential to the appraiser and bank, and see what they say!
By Susan Robertson,  Thu Jun 25 2009, 09:15
Funny post. I do have the abilty to look into someones eyes and say, You need have this place professionally cleaned, that price wont do, etc. I also bring along proof with archives of homes that did not sell. Furthermore, I have learned to walk away, rather than be frustrated and wait for sellers to come to the conclution I was right!
By Stephanie McCarty, Real estate agent,  Thu Jun 25 2009, 17:04
Great post. . .been there, done that for sure! To be honest, 11 listing opportunities in the past 6 weeks and not a single one of them listed. I would gladly work around all of the issues with sellers that you so eloquently point out, if I could simply find a few of them who haven't used their homes as an ATM machine and want me to help them take equity a SECOND TIME by overpricing the house! In the suburbs of Atlanta, there's still alot of "denial" going on in our seller market. If I hear "I'm not going to give my house away" one more time I think I will get in the car and just keep driving!
By Francesca Patrizio,  Fri Jun 26 2009, 02:51
Thanks Carl for taking the time to blog on these items - you offer some very valid points that are often difficult for us to get across to sellers . . . in most cases, not because we don't have the skillset to do so. My personal technique when counseling prospective sellers has always been to provide them with the positive selling points of their property as well as the potentially negative aspects of their home and/or the selling process . . . the end result most often being the beginning of a profitable relationship for myself and the seller . . . however, there are times where it is just not what a seller wants to hear.

SELLERS: proceed with caution with those who tell you that your house is fabulous, don't change a thing (now or in the future), I can get it sold for x $$$ in x amount of time and no lockbox and restricted showing times are A.O.K. In this market.
By Fern,  Fri Jun 26 2009, 07:05
Carl I am a new agent, and I appreciate your wisdom. I hope that I can and will say these things to my sellers ,even as hard as it might be!
By John J Dutra,  Fri Jun 26 2009, 13:49
Thank you for a well written article, Carl. In a world where opinions are developed over 30-second spots, or news highlights, you article is very specific, your points articulated well and quite frankly, well over due. Perhaps the largest mis-perception is of course that realtors are overpaid and I can only tell you that that is true - but only for the worst of realtors. Nothing is worse than paying someone who does not do their job, communicates poorly or leaves the sellers wondering what their realtor did (if anything) to sell their home.

The largest part of the realtor network though are highly experienced, hard working people who often work their tails off only to realize that the transaction may never come through at all, losing a significant investment of time, energy and of course their own money in the process.

You have been a friend for a while and I know the time you invest with every (and I do mean every) client, your attention to specifics in the contract and your strength in negotiations that benefits each of them. The fact that your service never ends - but often continues to other family members (I consider family recommendations as the highest of compliments) is a tribute to you and your commitment to the industry as well as your clients. Integrity, Hurculean effort, Attention to Detail and Service - hey, do I sense a theme here?
It has been a tremendous pleasure to know you and work with you my friend. You are the best. John
By Lee Taylor,  Sat Jun 27 2009, 14:21
Carl,

I can tell that you are a wise and seasoned sales professional-you have a matter of fact style that never goes out of style.

Writing a post on Trulia that generates this much buzz is pretty nifty, but doing what you and I do everyday is even niftier.

To the few haters who commented - look, you punks and pretenders are only as good as your NEXT sale - sellers and agents included. Every one of the 15 "things" is mega-valid.

There are nuances and there are subtleties to each and every one, but Carl put them out there in such an easy to digest and easy to comprehend way, and for that he is light years ahead of most agents.

Here's my worldview - most agents in Atlanta suck.

Furthermore, most Atlanta sellers are grossly deceived.

Probably close to the same status everywhere else, but here's Atlanta's recent statistic to back up this "suction" - 70 out of 100 Atlanta listings fail to sell during their listing period. The number should come down a little this year and once we get the second quarter stats we will know for sure, but a large portion of that 70 is guilty of appointment only, pet odor, no lockbox, no virtual tour, etc. foolishness.

Price is of course the primary problem, and the primary reason that most listing agents suck.

It's the agents who can't even keep their signs erect who are usually my first clue that a house won't sell...

Carl's 15 statements are 15 ways to reduce agent suction!

As for the frustrated seller or two who longs for something other than the cold, hard reality of the real estate agency business today, just remember that hope is not a strategy.

Carl is a strategist and his long, hard work days are loaded with proactive and diligent client-focused sales tactics.

At the same time, he needs to generate and convert sales leads everyday-anyone who is in the agency business to stay must be a salesperson first and foremost.

Carl- you rock. I will remember you for Fremont referrals. Thanks for writing up the list!
By DAWN ROSE,  Sun Jun 28 2009, 09:30
Amen!
By Cindi Hagley, Windermere Welcome Home,  Sun Jun 28 2009, 23:02
I especially love #9!
By Lorraine Beato,  Mon Jun 29 2009, 10:28
Great article and so true. I have become a little more blunt lately asking up front if "I can be totally honest with you" so that I get permission to be bold. I will be adding this to my files!
By Bob Cumiskey,  Wed Jul 1 2009, 07:37
What a terrific post. I especially enjoyed the one about collectors. I had a couple who had a suit of armor in their living room, and didn't understand when I suggested they store it in the garage or put it in the spare bedroom or office. I just thought it clashed with the 6 ft sand dollar that they had hung over the fireplace. LOL
HA!

Wow, I would never EVER say those things to a client (but have thought about a few)!

Sorry to say, but it's all true!
By Charles Golden,  Fri Jul 3 2009, 03:30
Since the seller's boker/agent is legally bound to protect the interests of the seller, buyers should be secretive of their own information such salary, as the most they want to pay, the maximum monthly payment they want, familiy information etc. Such information is enormously valuable to the seller and seller's broker in negotiation. Disclosure of this information to the seller's broker places the buyer at a serious disadvantage in the home buying negotiations.
By Linda Jandura,  Mon Jul 6 2009, 07:31
Love your list, everyone of which I wish I could have told sellers (either my own or homes where I was taking my buyers to) many times.

Now how to tactfully get this blog out to all potential sellers?
By Rhonda Holt,  Sun Jul 12 2009, 16:48
Hey Carl:

Thanks for writing on this topic! I disagree with some of your points. I am a Producing Associate Broker at Weichert Realtors in Brooklyn, NY. There are many ways to skin a cat! Being honest with your seller, will gain you the respect in the industry! You don't have to be blunt as you wrote but could cautiously get your point accross and still get the listing! You've to show them why you are the BEST!http://yourrealestateking.blogspot.com and visit http://www.kandhHomes.com

emai:yourrealestateking@gmail.com
By Kyle Kissmann,  Tue Jul 14 2009, 16:10
Wow! And from a previous buyer, this is everything and MORE that I wanted to say to seller's of houses we looked at, including the one we bought. This blog needs to be featured in some OBVIOUS spot on trulia, seriously! I think every seller, buyer, and agents that are too full of themselves need to read it, especially the ones that embellish their ads.
By Mary Campbell,  Tue Jul 14 2009, 19:42
This is so funny, but sooooooooo true! Thanks for your honesty!
By Tom Carlson,  Wed Jul 15 2009, 14:12
Mr and Mrs Seller
There are always buyers and sellers in any given market. You house has not sold yet because it is overpriced and you are chasing the market downwards. If you want to sell your home, please clean up the mess, leave the dog at a neighbors house, and let's start over with a realisitic price.
Being honest with sellers is difficult, but my job is to be honest and truthful. And that includes the good, the bad, and the ugly.
By James Harp ®,  Fri Jul 17 2009, 09:49
This is true more times than a person would think but all of this does happen at one tome or another.
By Joan Braunschweiger,  Mon Jul 20 2009, 11:05
You know, I'm a new agent and decided to start a blog myself, something I have never done before. My 2nd post was this exact topic but I must say that yours was so much better written. You have taught me a lot. Thank you!
By Kimberly Kirkman,  Wed Jul 22 2009, 18:23
Wow!! I am getting ready for vacation.... I really need a break and this article explains (almost every reason why). Thank you sooooo much for the laugh - life has been sooooo serious in Real Estate lately. We are Realtors not Super Hero's....
By Kimberlee Salimeno,  Thu Jul 23 2009, 11:29
I absolutely love what you wrote...fantastic read!

I always believe in honesty...I will tell my sellers that I base my life and my business on honesty...and then we go from there! I would hate to not tell my sellers something that could potentially hurt a sell...now I don't believe in being rude. There is a right and wrong way to handle every situation and I believe that my customers respect honesty and do not want to be led astray by false truths.

Most Sellers are emotionally attached and it is up to us to remain unattached and truthful as to what buyers are looking for.
By George Szkup,  Thu Jul 23 2009, 21:26
All this is interesting and true - but people are people and we have to accept it. At few occasions some agent friends ask me for assistance/advise in selling their own home - they had difficulties - and would you know? They acted like all sellers!
As far as not letting cat out - I have a better one for you from my early days as an agent. I arrived at a property for listing presentation and discovered a pig running loose around a house - and it was not a small piglet. I commented on this to the owners and was explained that this is not a pig but family pet and that this breed is legally recognized as a pet? I needed that commission badly so I did a splendid job convincing owners to keep that pet outside for a few days. But I got number of interesting comments from a few prospective buyers.
George from Tucson
PS - house did not sale.
By Mylistingfeedback Team,  Sat Jul 25 2009, 17:59
While it would obviously benefit the seller to take professional advice from their listing agent, most sellers may take offense as they are so emotional with their house.

This is one of the main reasons our software MyListingFeedback.com (http://mylistingfeedback.com) has been well received by many listing agents. The showing feedback helps reaffirm the professional advice the listing agent provides to the seller and they don't have to the bearer of bad news for the more personal issues. Buyers and showing agents provide this feedback and sellers seem to take corrective action at a much higher rate!

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By Flippinlady,  Sun Jul 26 2009, 21:07
As a Buyer, I Agree. You Forgot to Mention,,,,,,Mow the Yard!. Me as a buyer cannot understand why this is not included in the Realtor Listing Agreement. AND all Pets must be on a Leash, caged or crated and/or fenced away from the house, not including 3 Strikes your out of the Listing Agreement and /or the House will not be shown.
I Do have a Question. Am I reading 1.) Do have a lockbox or Do not have a lockbox.
2.) Do have Appointment Only or Do Not.
3.) A Qualified Letter before a showing or Not

I understand that an Open House creates greater opportunities for the Realtor than the Seller.
By Carl Medford,  Sun Jul 26 2009, 21:15
1. MAKE SURE you have a lockbox!

2. DO NOT show by appointment only (unless the seller is bedridden and the day nurse can only open the door at certain times) ... let them in when they need to get in. As in, when it works for them, not you.

3. Let any warm body in the front door that comes with a Realtor (unless it's an open house - then let them ALL in)! Even if they are not pre-approved, their cousin Billy Bob just might be ...
By Lori Jeltema,  Mon Jul 27 2009, 05:42
...I am a dog lover but....One day last week, I spent a good ten minutes rummaging through a sellers closets looking for papertowels and spray so I could mop up the dog pee off the floor so my buyer didn't step in it. At least it didn't lift it's leg and go on me like another one did. At one house, the dog slobbered over me so much that I had to stop at Burlington Coat Factory on the way back to my office and buy a new shirt before meeting my next clients. That will never bother me as much as the smoke smell, though. That's the worse and most buyers won't even walk through the front door. I agree with many of the points made above but I have to say that I have had luck at open houses - not just picking up buyers but actually having the buyers purchase the home I was hosting.
By Brenda Swigert,  Tue Jul 28 2009, 18:37
What a great blog! I loved it and have lived it! Thank you!
By Dan,  Tue Jul 28 2009, 19:18
Great comments. Hopefully, buyers and sellers will rely on real estate professionals for the worth of our expertise
By Robin Jones,  Wed Jul 29 2009, 04:22
Great list and so true ! How about #16, Clean is not a relative term. Before you even put it on the market do a spring cleaning like Grandma used to, as in q-tips in the corners, eat off the floor, everything is sparkling, clean. (then maintain it) And a great tip for sellers with pets, throw away the vacum bag (or empty the Dyson) every time you vacum. Alot of the pet odor is in the bag and vacuming with the same bag will actually make your rooms smell more like pet.
By Gpgp1,  Thu Jul 30 2009, 07:00
Good but... are you sure realtors deserve any penny of their commission?
Is it that hard to sell houses in a seller market or is it that hard to set a low price in a buyer market (and say your $10,000 hot tube is a nice to have)?
I think that today, realtors contribute to price decline because they want houses to sell in order to get their commission. Not a big loss for the realtor, significant loss for the seller.
By Mary Stewart,  Thu Jul 30 2009, 08:37
Great blog and so many comments over the months. I agree and discuss with my sellers that a clean house is essential, less is more, let potential buyers actually see the home and be able to visualize themselves, furniture and all in the home. I have never had a seller disagree in that respect and they actually do it if they want their home sold in a reasonable amount of time. Realtors DO earn every penny that comes with the sale of a home. The hours spent in doing all that is necessary can be immense. The counseling for the sellers, the expertise that is necessary, carrying the sale through from beginning to end so that whomever you are representing is protected is a huge responsibility. Realtors are not attorneys or accountants and cannot give legal advice, but holding the hands of either the buyers or sellers is an important part of our job. How are you paid for the job or work you do, would you take less because someone thinks you ask too much. Would you discount your own services when you give your all in time and yes money. Having a listing is not free to the agent, it costs money to advertise, hold opens and do what is necessary in order to sell the home. It takes money to drive buyers around to see potenial homes for them. It takes money for the Realtor to do almost anything, just like any other business. Yes we do earn every penny and more. Glad to do it.
By Tim & Susan Fennell,  Tue Aug 4 2009, 07:42
It is unfortunate that any seller would take offense at the advice provided by seasoned agents who study the industry and work it day in and day out. These 15 items (and others that might be added) are very real. Just look at all the comments from other agents and it's clear to see that these are universal truths in the industry worthy of consideration by anyone trying to sell their house.

We (agents) tell sellers these things for one reason and one reason only - we want to help sellers acheive their goal of getting the house SOLD! Each is an obstacle in that process and must be removed in order to sell the house as quickly as possible, for the highest price possible with the least disruption to one's lifestyle as possible.

If a seller refuses to heed the advice, he does so to his own detriment. No need to shoot the messenger just because you don't like the message.
By Irena Popilevsky,  Tue Aug 4 2009, 13:34
Sadly but oh so true. Sellers should consider the advise they are getting from their realtor, and we as professionals it is our duty to tell our sellers. We are probably the only industry who spends our own money and time before getting compensated for our work. It is our responsibilty to advise and guide our homeowners.
By oakparkjane,  Wed Aug 5 2009, 15:50
I'm a potential buyer. I have to disagree about Open Houses.

I've been looking for two years and trudged through so many overpriced houses that I'm exhausted. I've made 4 offers to be beaten out by cash offers below mine. The 2 buyers agents I worked with made me feel like they were put out by having to make it to the appointment and then they all but stood their tapping their foot waiting for me to finish so they could move on to the hot REIT or LLC package deal they had brewing. I no longer want to go through the hassle of calling the agent, any agent, to arrange a viewing.

If the house looks like it might work for me, I will make it a point to go to the open house and if it looks like it will work, I'll make the offer right there. But you won't get me to pick up the phone or my enthusiasm anytime soon.
By Boykinfly,  Thu Aug 6 2009, 08:12
In response to Gpgp1........................The Realtor actually does lose money by reducing a homes price unless they are receiving a flat rate commission. Neither the Seller or Realtor sets the price for your home. The Market does, therefore, I don't understand your logic. As far as Realtors deserving their commission...Yes they work hard for their commissions. If it were really easy to sell our homes on our own the Real Estate Commission would not be needed, nor would it exist. Just my opinion!
By Ron Rovtar,  Thu Aug 6 2009, 18:16
It is too bad so many real estate agents have twits for clients. My sympathy!

I guess I am fortunate. My clients are great people. Sometimes they need a bit of help seeing their homes the way buyers see them, but helping home sellers figure out the marketplace is my job and I love every minute of it!
By Joseph C. Hastings,  Thu Aug 6 2009, 20:19
There are clients and then again, there are clients. This is an article written from experience and those of us in the business for any period of time will relate to this witty and humorous article. Many sellers will certainly see themselves in the various scenarios here. The basic theme is that just about all sellers expect top dollar for the sale of their home while paying out as little comission as possible. These concepts tend to be mutually exclusive. The local markets set pricing. Full maketing and exposure go hand in hand with full comission. We as Licensed professionals in an effort to relay market conditions, etc to a prospective client need to be on our game and truly listen to the needs of each client to best serve them. I invite all sellers to call Joseph Hastings, their trusted Prudential Douglas Elliman Real Estate professional to help them with all their real estate needs.
By Jacky Mitchell,  Fri Aug 7 2009, 05:10
I feel badly when I hear both buyers & sellers upset with Realtors. Most of us are very hard working people who are conscientious about our clients. This is a tough market & all parties need to to co-operate. Quite frankly I do tell owners about odors, pet - cooking, etc. I also spend a lot of time marketing on the internet & calling back the agents who have shown my listings for feedback, interest & then making changes when possible.

I am an Accredited Buyer Representative. When I received my designation for ABR, I was one of 41,000 Agents world-wide. I'm now one of 35,000 world wide. I called the REBAC council in Chicage for that last statistic. I endeavor to give my buyer clients as much information as possible, and I really was sorry to read some of the posts from both buyers & sellers. I'm sorry you have had bad experiences.
The market is changing. But gee whiz buyers, you have the most available houses for sale in decades & you have low interest rates. if you're a first time home buyer, you have many programs to assist you with this first purchase. There were 61,000 houses on the market in Southeastern PA in June 2009. What a selection! Sellers had 60,999 houses to compete with, so... I think I've made my point.

EVERYONE MUST DO THEIR PART to get through this market!!!
By Kaydean,  Fri Aug 7 2009, 11:39
This article is very helpful to those who are trying to sell, but please don't wrap all realtor's in one group. I have been looking for a house to buy now for over 10 months. In the process I have even sold my own home-not thru a realtor-just by my own advertisement. What people don't understand is they got to have patience -when selling and buying. What realtor's need to know is YOU DONT HAVE TO HAVE A REALTOR TO SELL YOUR house but NEED one to BUY a house. I know this first hand.
THere are GOOD and there are BAD realtor's. Out of the many realtor's I have met only about 5 would qualify for GOOD. I am talking about someone who is willing to "help" you find a place. I do not expect the realtor to do all the work--i do as much as i can by internet (due to the fact that I am wanting to buy in another state). I get frustrated as all get out when there is only one picture of a property -then you have to call to find out more---come on --i dont care how messy -junk'd up or dirty a place is---you realtor's really want to sell -----POST PICTURES!!!! 99% of the houses I go to look at don't look NOTHING like the ONE picture the realtor took!! i know you want to show the best of a property but SAVE THE BUYER"S TIME--Dont be afraid to take photo's of the place. AND PLEASE whatever you do --KNOW A LITTLE OF THE PLACE we called you about!!! It is done right aggrivating when the realtor is left in "the dark" about sizes of rooms, windows, flooring.
I just had to put my two cents in!! JUST DONT say ALL realtor's are working hard----THAT just is not so!! Realtor.com and other like websites do MAJORITY of your selling---but you are needed--and when we the buyers NEED you --PLEASE be there to answer the questions.
By Steve,  Sat Aug 8 2009, 14:14
15. “We’re worth our commission.”

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
By Healthierhabits,  Sat Aug 8 2009, 20:30
The good Realtors are the ones who make money (not always a lot) since they are the ones who sell homes. We are in the process of selling our home now & have an awesome Realtor who is willing to come do a quick 'clean sweep' and turn on the lights, etc. if we aren't home. If you ask me, that is working hard. I appreciate everything she does and know she works VERY hard. And remember, they don't get paid unless they make a transaction, so somebody has to be buying a house! I loved the article, as I am very attached to my home! But we have made every change that was advised and would never turn down anybody to look at our house no matter how inconvenient it is...it wouldn't be on the market if we didn't want to sell it!
By Mark Sellers,  Sun Aug 9 2009, 13:46
This article is a hoot--well done!

If I may be so bold as to offer one additional suggestion, I would recommend that sellers clean up their yards. My wife and I are stationed overseas right now, but we will be moving back to the States in the not-too-distant future and have begun to scout out potential homes to buy. One of the best tools we have to work with are the aerial photographs and street views that we find on Trulia as well as the aerial photographs that county appraiser sites often provide. Some of the houses we've been looking at look great when we read the listing, but when we see a few junk cars in the yard and big dry spot where the above-ground pool used to be we tend to put those house at the bottom of our list. The amount of information available for potential buyers is so much greater than it was just a few years ago, and believe me, we're using it.
By Allison Crow, Realtor,  Tue Aug 11 2009, 08:02
PERFECT and So True.
By Cristina Callegari,  Wed Aug 12 2009, 01:00
Ws Homeowner made an interesting point about Realtors homes staying on the market longer, and selling for a higher price. I'd like to respond to that.

Realtors homes stay on the market longer because we don't have time to show our own homes because we are too busy showing the homes of our Sellers. Our homes sell for more because, as Realtors we have the clear advantage in knowing exactly what renovations, decor, paint colors, etc. buyers are attracted too. And we've remodeled, and maintained our homes in that way. If you ever went into a Realtors home you would see that 9 times out of 10 the house is in perfect, or near-perfect condition while it is on the market. We take all our knowledge and experience and apply it to every renovation, remodeling project, and decorating choice we make. As a Realtor, everytime I do something to my home I think about whether or not what I am doing will add value. Sometimes, my husband gets frustrated with me because I won't let him create his video game room, and I won't let him paint the garage the colors of his favorite sports team. I am also ultra-diligent about keeping up on all home maintenance, i.e., I have the gutters cleaned 2x per year, chimney swept, house and deck powerwashed every spring, Windows washed interior and exterior 4x per year, all my landscaping is in perfect order, I don't have leaky faucets, a noisy heating system, etc. That diligence translates into a higher selling price. The average homeowner does not practice this kind of maintenance. Even more importantly, the average homeowner doesn't remodel with resale in mind. They remodel with their tastes in mind - which doesn't always equal what a buyer wants.

These were points that freakonomics didn't touch upon. In my opinion it is kind of like accussing a nutritionist for being in better shape, or healthier than their clients. Or, like saying that a personal trainer has such great abs, but his clients don't. We can only lead the horse to water, but we can't make them drink. Nor is it feasible for a seller to completely remodel their home when they put it on the market.

Also, Freakonomics didn't discuss that as Realtors we also have the advantage of being able to more wisely select a home to buy in the first place. And, when we select a home we are less emotional about it, because after all - this is our profession, and we put more weight into thoughts of re-sale during the purchase process in general.

While the home used to compare to a Realtors may have been a Comp in Size, year built, etc. I can guarantee that very few of the "comps" used in the Freakonomics article were comps when it came to condition and staging while on the market. (I see enough cluttered, dirty, smelly homes on a daily basis to know this to be the truth).

At the end of the day houses that are un-cluttered, clean, and in great shape sell for more money than similar homes that aren't.
By Kathleen Smith,  Wed Aug 12 2009, 08:06
To Mary Ellen,
I just want to say that you expressed concern that Realtors now a days just use the internet to sell and do little work for their commissions. First lets talk about the internet. The listings don't just appear on all these sites, we pay for them, and pay well out of our own pockets. Next we have to list each home by hand on each site unless there is syndication which still requires us to upload by hand several other smaller sites. I spend at least 15 hours a week check, uploading and responding to the online listings. Because we are online we get tire kickers and lots of them. We answer more e mail and telephone questions that ever before just because the information is there are people would like to know more. Yes, this does give us more exposure for our sellers but it is a lot more work than when a buyer would walk into the office, look at a book and purchase a home. We have to weed through those that are just curious which was not a problem before the internet.
Second, commissions. Say your home is listed for $300,000. The commission is 6% which is average. $18,000. is the commission. The home was sold through another agency at a 50/50 split. Now you have $9,000.00 The listing was referred to you by a co-worker in another state and you are paying 25% for the referral. You are now at $6750.00 The broker takes half if you are not a seasoned agent. You may or may not have a better split depending on the brokerage. You are now at $3375.00. We pay 8% to the national company if you we are affiliated. We are now at around $3105.00 Minus the expenses to keep your listing online and in front of all the potential buyers which most spend at least $40.00 a month. Now take from that the 10 months that your home has been on the market. We are now at $2705.00 Don't forget the fees to use the MLS which in RI is $30.00 a month and the fees to call ourselves a Realtor. We are now at $1905.00 This is not including the gas to take potential buyers to view your home. Would you work for $1905 not including gas for ten full months? Please, before thinking that someone is making a killing do the math. You would be surprised.
By Scott Sadlon,  Fri Aug 14 2009, 07:07
Awesome
By Mary,  Fri Aug 14 2009, 18:48
I know this will be unpopular in this real estate agent arena, but I believe in doing-it-yourself (DIY). I know it wouldn't be a good idea for everyone, but if one sufficiently researches and soul-searches, one ought to have the option and accessability!! This is America, right? The real estate market seems to be such a "members-only system" because FSBO's largely cannot obtain MLS#, nor have access to advertise online on Trulia.com. BTW, in Kathleen Smith's response to Mary Ellen above, I am sorry she doesn't get more of the $18,000 BUT I doubt she has to pay $70/mo per house for advertising and using MLS. So if she sells 10 houses in 10 months, then she should accumulate $30,350/10 months. Not too shabby. She would make more than say a teacher, who may be paying student loans for a 4 year degree. It still doesn't change the fact that in Mary Ellen's example, it cost $18000 to go through a realtor. Bottom line: I believe that there should be a ceiling placed on the percentage and that FSBO's should be allowed to pay for a MLS too.
By Renee Nation Mitchell,  Sat Aug 15 2009, 14:44
Mary, I understand your skepticism. I felt exactly the same way before I becames an agent and although I love my work, I got a reality check. It truly is expensive to be an agent. The fees that Kathleen Smith quoted are very accurate and there are many others that haven't been stated. National fees, state fees, local fees, MLS fees, lockbox fees, virtual tour fees, floorplan fees, signs, directional areas, flyer boxes, office supplies, office equipment, Errors & Omissions insurance, Continuing Education...it goes on and on. The marketing and advertising expenses are huge...Internet sites, homes magazines, newspaper ads, postcards, etc. All of these expenses are out of the agents pocket, if the home doesn't sell they are simply out the money. Also how do you assign a value to the fact that an agent is available every day plus evenings and weekends....even holidays. Here's another thing that many people don't realize, we are provided no benefits (insurance, retirement, paid days off) like a conventional job, it's all out of our pockets. I work for a national company that I absolutely love and pay a 4 figure payment every month for that privilege as well as a percentage of each commission. Gosh, I would be thrilled to spend only $70.00 a month per home on advertising and MLS fees, in fact, I would be overjoyed to pay even twice that amount! Another thing to consider is upon starting in real estate you work several months or more with no pay (because you don't get paid until you have a closing) but the expenses I stated above still have to be paid. National statistics indicate that 25% of new agents leave the industry by the end of the first year, 50% by the end of the second year and this is why.

I do my best to make transactions effortless for my clients...researching the market, contracts, inspections, title work, meeting with repair persons, utility companies, appraisers, whatever it takes because I know my clients' time is valuable too. Most consumers don't know what truly goes on behind the scenes.

I don't believe that all agents are created equal. It's like any job, some are better than others. I also don't believe that everyone needs a Realtor. It's like any other task in life, if you can do it yourself I think you absolutely should. There truly are some great internet sites for FSBO's to sell their homes. I would encourage FSBO's to also consider working with agents that are representing prospective buyers. Approximately 90% of buyers today are working with an agent. It's an option that still allows you to sell your home with fewer expenses, keeps you in touch with a large pool of buyers and your contracts, title work, etc are still overseen by a professional.

I hope this provides a little better understanding of the financial responsibilities of agents and hope that you continue to have great success as a FSBO.
By Bredwards,  Sun Aug 16 2009, 09:31
Those 15 points are right on target. I would add one more: Selling "as is" means you do have to clean out the "junk room" clean kitchen appliances, basements and over flowing closets. It's really hard for a potential buyer to imagine themselves living in the home amidst the personal "stuff" of the current owner.
By Carl Medford,  Sun Aug 16 2009, 09:38
Mary:

I understand the desire to be able to post a for-sale-by-owner listing on the MLS, and there are services that will do that for you for a fee. However, you have to remember what the MLS actually is:

It’s the Multiple Listing Service: a list of listings BY REALTORS FOR REALTORS.

It’s set up by Realtors, run by Realtors and paid for … by Realtors. We pay monthly and yearly dues and are governed by very strict guidelines.

In addition, if we want showcase listings on other sites like Realtor.com and Trulia, we pay for them. In the case of Realtor.com, we pay a lot.
By Mary Ann Lipsey,  Sun Aug 16 2009, 15:00
Oh my gosh! I totally loved that and would like to have that list in pretty "brochure form" to take on all my listing appointments..You hit the nail on the head, in every single one. I've been selling for 17 years and can relate to everything you said, and well said too! I copied and pasted it or e-mailed to every single agt I know in my area

thanks for the smile..I mean, laugh! I laughed out loud!!!
By Katiemn,  Tue Aug 18 2009, 14:41
I don't think my real estate agent has done much to earn the large amount they are going to get when we close. Let's see.... We went to look at the house (after my husband and I found it on the internet). When we made an offer on the house he helped us fill that paperwork out over the phone and he hasn't explained anything to us. Whenever we call this realtor, he says "Patience, patience, patience" and doesnt give us any real answers so we had to call the selling agent to accomplish anything. She was not much better. She forgot that we were doing the home inspection and never showed up and instead had the sellers their to greet us and "show us around". We really didn't want the sellers at the home inspection and neither did the home inspector. Additionally, the selling agent caused a two week delay in getting the appraisal because the furnace was being worked on and she and the sellers took their sweet time taking care of it. Now that it's gone to underwriting we won't hear from the real estate agent until closing so they can come pick up their easy money... oops, I mean commission. Seriously, these real estate agents spend a few hours on our file and they make thousands of dollars off our loan. Real estate agents are thieves.
By Renee Nation Mitchell,  Wed Aug 19 2009, 07:57
Katiemn, I am SO sorry for your experience and can understand why you feel the way you do. It's an agents job to work for your best interest and to recognize the time table of events as described in the contract to purchase. As I mentioned previously, every profession has members that are good at what they do and members that are not. I hope you aren't disappointed with the entire industry. Keep in mind that a large part of our business comes from referrals. Contact friends and family to find out who they've used and trust. It goes without saying that when an agent provides poor service they will soon be out of business.

I wish you the best with the balance of the transaction and hope that you truly enjoy your new home.
By Micah Lessey,  Wed Aug 19 2009, 14:40
Lol very funny. these are like the 15 commandments of Real Estate. thanks for the laugh!
By Gail Sartain,  Thu Aug 20 2009, 15:11
In reading these comments I noticed references to their Realtor/Agent/whatever? As incoming President of my local Board of Realtors I feel compelled to take this opportunity to remind the real estate community and possibly inform the public for the first time that only members of the National Association of Realtors, who are bound by a Code of Ethics may use the term REALTOR. I sit on the Ethics Hearing Panel and I can assure you that we take adherance to our Code of Ethics seriously.
By Irena Gorski,  Fri Aug 28 2009, 21:48
Carl, great posting. I laughed a lot....It's all true. I remember showing houses to one of my clients two months ago. Inside the one house there were 3 cats, I was instructed to not let them out. I did not. The only thing the listing agent forgot to enter in showing instructions was to be careful and not to step in the cat's poop, which was here and there on the carpet throughout the house. My feedback from the showing was to the point.... Regarding marketing, open houses etc... we all know the difference in the agents job. Open Houses are Effective, but not traditional Open Houses on Saturday or Sunday 3pm-5pm. Open Houses 24/7 in full motion, high definition real estate videos are! Here is an example http://bit.ly/262iu
Buyers can visit those homes at any time witohout disturbing home sellers. What a convenience to Sellers, they don't have to leave the house, they can show it when they are sleeping.............(by the way, this house got sold already!)
By Jodi Harris,  Mon Aug 31 2009, 13:55
As a designer (and a new Realtor) being asked by many homeowners to come into their homes and professionally give them advise on how to make their rooms more appealing, I would like to comment on a couple of points. Christina Callegari's comments on Realtor's homes being on the market longer- because they are too busy to show their own homes- the seller is also very busy and has to take the time out of their daily routines with the event of a single phone call. Also, regarding the comments on not painting a room a certain color because a more neutral color would sell better. Many times I have gone into homes and the homeowners would be afraid to paint a room a color they would love because a "Realtor" had told them a neutral color will be better to sell their home. They may not be even thinking of selling for 5 or 10 years. This means for all the years they live in their homes, they are living in dull rooms, because of a simple general comment. Please do not think every house has to be neutral to bring out the qualities of the home. My suggestion is to stand back in every room and ask the homeowner what they like about the room, the special qualities. Then, looking at the room, point out what would best bring out this feature. You can mention "a light tan would bring out the wood-tones better, or the bookshelves would really be shown off with only three shelves having books."This way, you are working with the homeowner to sell the features of the house they are pointing out. Write down the ideas, a list, as you go. You can "stop back on Friday (for example) to take pictures of these highlights."
By Jodi Smith,  Tue Sep 1 2009, 05:40
Is this your Tom Cruise (show me the money) version of your manifesto? I love it! Just wish I was brave enough to actually SAY these things sometimes. I haven't been in the business long enough to get to that point...but I can see how I could get there someday.

Can you do one on Buyer's now?
By Karen Setnor,  Wed Sep 2 2009, 18:14
Stephanie McCarty: "In the suburbs of Atlanta, there's still alot of 'denial' going on in our seller market. If I hear 'I'm not going to give my house away' one more time I think I will get in the car and just keep driving!"

Real estate agents, pre-2006: "Now's the best time to buy! Your home will only go up in value! Real estate is an investment!"

Real estate agents, circa 2006: "Ohmigod you'd better buy now! Real estate prices double every 10 years! You can leverage your way to a fortune! A home is a magic money machine! Buy now or you'll be priced out forever!"

Real estate agents, now: "Man, what's with these idiot sellers? Who told these morons that the value of their home would keep going up?"
By John,  Thu Sep 3 2009, 04:06
Hi Carl,
I couldn't have said it better myself. You bring an important subject matter to the front of agents minds in a most delightful way. I will pass this on to my agents and hope it sparks the interest and excitement that is seems to have created on this Trulia forum. I suggest that other brokers do the same.
Best of Luck.
John
By Eric,  Sat Sep 5 2009, 11:30
Carl,
PLEASE, worth your commission? All you do is take pictures of the house and post them on the internet. When I bought my house I found it not the realtor. All they wanted to show me was junk that they could make a double commission on the seller and the buyer. What you think your smarter than everyone else? Because you spent $300 on a month long course at the junior college to get a Real estate license. Your profession and real estate appraiser are the reason the banks and the economy are in trouble. OVER INFLATING THE PRICES OF HOMES. Just because one house in the neighborhood sold for X amount doesn't mean all the others are worth the same amount. All realtors do is look at comps. THIS WEB SITE DOES YOUR JOB FOR YOU!!!
By Don Tepper,  Sat Sep 5 2009, 13:07
Great blog posting. I agree with almost everything in it.

ALMOST everything? Right. Almost everything.

The one thing I do disagree with is right at the beginning: "As I talk to a lot of REALTORS, they share with me things they’ve often wanted to say to sellers but never had the guts to do so. But deep inside they felt they really SHOULD have said something." As a Realtor, I'm not bashful about telling my clients any of those things. Otherwise I'm wasting my time when I don't have to. Speak up early, or spend hours, days, weeks, or more trying to overcome some of those barriers. Or working with clients who don't value the Realtor's time and efforts.
By Dentistcbdsydney,  Thu Sep 10 2009, 07:58
These are the sellers we are dealing with out here folks. It pays to educate on the new way to market homes to sell and that social media is the way to go. I especially like the fact that we can market homes for a lot less than actually placing ads in the local newspaper, that is such a waste of money. This website is such a good one for those who wants to own a house.
By Carl Medford,  Thu Sep 10 2009, 13:19
It’s true that we now seldom pay for print advertising, HOWEVER, proper Internet advertising IS NOT cheap. Whereas we used to shoot one picture and pay for print, now we:

• Have the home staged by a licensed professional
• Pay for a professional photographer to go out and do an entire shoot, with over 200 pictures, virtual tours and so on.
• Hire a production crew to put together websites, virtual tours and the actual print materials we still use and that the client expects.
• Pay for the printed materials we use.
• Finally, we pay for premium exposure on the Internet. Sites such as Realtor.com and Trulia charge us to post featured listings … and it is NOT cheap, especially if you have a number of listings.

All in all, our advertising budget has gone UP, not down …

Here is an example:

http://www.4490glidden.com/
By Cindy Keil, Realtor, CDPE, SFR, FIS,  Mon Sep 14 2009, 12:47
Thanks for the article! Realtors need to be brutally honest with our clients! If not, we are doing a disservice to our profession, especially in these challenging times. If the seller can't handle the truth, then they need to find someone else to sell their home.

Cindy Keil
Realtor, CDPE
By Carlos Lievano,  Wed Sep 16 2009, 19:18
Great question Carl - I like Cindy's post... I prefer a Realtor that will be straight forward... rather than one who is looking for the next sale or someone to blame. During a recent transaction, the Realtor I worked with was great up until the point I confirmed I received the contract... after that she passed me off to her "office processor" and so during the next 21 days I had to "talk her buyer off the ledge" throughout the process even seeking advice from another business partner (rival broker) to guide my client throught the transaction.

In this industry... we need real partners and a reputation that can back up backed up with integrity throughout all stages.

Cindy - I like you - I am a fan!!!
By Carlos Lievano,  Wed Sep 16 2009, 19:26
Great question Carl - I like Cindy's post... I prefer a Realtor that will be straight forward... rather than one who is looking for the next sale or someone to blame. During a recent transaction, the Realtor I worked with was great up until the point I confirmed I received the contract... after that she passed me off to her "office processor" and so during the next 21 days I had to "talk her buyer off the ledge" throughout the process even seeking advice from another business partner (rival broker) to guide my client throught the transaction.

In this industry... we need real partners and a reputation that can back up backed up with integrity throughout all stages.

Cindy - I like you - I am a fan!!!
By Gpgp1,  Mon Sep 21 2009, 01:57
All houses are the same, sellers won't be able to sale anything on their own, hopefully, you can get a real estate agent for 3% of the house price who will make the difference. He will make a few prints with a big picture of himself and small pictures of the house, he will advertise on the internet and spend millions on that. He will hire a bunch of crews because he can't himself give home staging advices or take hundreds of pictures to make a virtual tour (you know, that single picture that scrolls). He will also tell you to remove your clothes from your dressing room to make it bigger, how funny it is to visit houses with only 2 shirts in the dressing room!
By Dianne,  Wed Sep 23 2009, 07:35
Thank you for the great post. However, as another writer mentioned, too often the term REALTOR is used incorrectly It is not synonomous with real estate icensee. It is a trademarked word to be used only by members of the National Association of Realtors. I am totally amazed at how many licensees do not know the meaning of the word and then go on to extoll the virtues of their own professionalism. We do a great disservice to the public when we misuse terms. Please, let's keep the word REALTOR where it belongs, next to the name of members, not just licensees. Thank you
Dianne Stromfeld, New York, Past President, MLSLI.
By Chino Hills Homes,  Sat Sep 26 2009, 07:35
“Your upgrades don’t deserve the extra amount you want added to the price.” cost never equates to value, so true.


http://www.homesaleschinohills.com/

 
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